Welcome to Bill's Arena Shared Parenting child custody divorce support site for kids!

     Main Menu
Home
Bills Blog
Interviews
The Walk
Stories Archive
Custody News
Site Forums
Events Calendar
Web Directory
FAQ
Tell a Friend
Feedback
Link to Us
User Profile
Cellular WAP
Advertising
SiteMap

     Latest Journals
my email - TheLostSock
Showing them how we feel through a paper. - TheLostSock
Noob here, my experience in 1000 words or less. - bargamer
please help me - shawtemple
why!!!????? - countrychick101
[ Journal | Your Journal ]

     Translate

Help support Bill's Arena!  Click Here and purchase hosting!

Bills Blog

Woo hoo! Amazing News

Thanks Dad!

102 Users! Yay!

2 year anniversary today!

Let you know Im here, got some good and bad news

Commenting on your own journal entries...

[ View Blogs ]

Shared Parenting News

» May 11th n MOTHER'S DAY :The Woman of Grace - Trading Markets (press release)

May 11th n MOTHER'S DAY :The Woman of Grace
Trading Markets (press release), CA - 4 hours ago
Their goals are universal in wanting the best for their offspring, though the parenting styles differ. So here's a look at a few such styles of 'mothering' ...

» Celebrities turn out for Motherhood Begins Now event to launch ... - Celebrity Baby Blog

Celebrities turn out for Motherhood Begins Now event to launch ...
Celebrity Baby Blog, NY - May 3, 2008
Celebrity moms and guests at the event casually swapped tales of their own experiences and challenges, and shared some of the parenting solutions they had ...

» Movie star, mom and mogul Sarah Jessica Parker admits: - Parade Magazine

Movie star, mom and mogul Sarah Jessica Parker admits:
Parade Magazine - 18 minutes ago
It’s not that Matthew spoils him, but he just has a different way of parenting than I do. I was never spoiled. Oh, dear no. I was the baby of the family ...

» Police urged to harass troublemakers - guardian.co.uk

Police urged to harass troublemakers
guardian.co.uk, UK - 18 hours ago
And their details could be shared with other Government agencies, so that they can be targeted for extra checks on whether they have paid their road tax, ...

» Spouse Calls: Positive military parenting - Stars and Stripes

Spouse Calls: Positive military parenting
Stars and Stripes, DC - May 2, 2008
Valerie and I have the shared experience of having said "I’ll never be in the military." We also have the shared experience of having to eat our words. ...

» Justices reduce orthopedic surgeon's child support slightly - West Virginia Record

Justices reduce orthopedic surgeon's child support slightly
West Virginia Record, WV - Apr 24, 2008
At first, Putnam County family court calculated the surgeon's support from Worksheet A, for basic shared parenting. In 2006, the family court changed the ...

» Four candidates in running for seats on Family Court bench - Bluefield Daily Telegraph

Four candidates in running for seats on Family Court bench
Bluefield Daily Telegraph, WV - May 2, 2008
“As a general rule of thumb, we believe it’s important that both parents are involved in a child’s life,” she said, pledging to support shared parenting ...

» Empowered mothers change the world - Times and Transcript

Empowered mothers change the world
Times and Transcript, Canada - 10 hours ago
A fight for mothers to be valued, for a world where parenting was shared between the sexes and supported by the community. Giving women more options -- at ...

» GOING AWAY PRESENTS ; "Nobody wakes up suddenly bald. You rise for ... - OpEdNews

GOING AWAY PRESENTS ; "Nobody wakes up suddenly bald. You rise for ...
OpEdNews, PA - 7 hours ago
Nevertheless, like the African frogs who slumber in dry river beds through years of drought, when the life showers of parenting, emotional distress, ...

» Police to 'turn the tables' on troublemakers - Independent

Police to 'turn the tables' on troublemakers
Independent, UK - 9 hours ago
If we get to the stage where we have to give someone an ASBO, we should consider putting alongside that a parenting order so that the parents take ...

» Parents need to stick together - Havelock News

Parents need to stick together
Havelock News, NC - May 7, 2008
By Kim Smith Parenting is hard for everyone. Whether you are a two-parent family, single parent or blended non-traditional family, it's hard. ...

» Ashton Kutcher on Demi Moore and Bruce Willis - Inquirer.net

Ashton Kutcher on Demi Moore and Bruce Willis
Inquirer.net, Philippines - 1 hour ago
In a rare real-life Hollywood set-up, Ashton and Demi keep a harmonious relationship with Bruce and the three thespians happily share parenting duties. ...

» 'Put on a Sweater! I Feel a Draft!!' - Jewish Exponent

Jewish Exponent

'Put on a Sweater! I Feel a Draft!!'
Jewish Exponent, PA - 4 hours ago
Jonathan Berent, a performance anxiety specialist (www.socialanxiety.com), agreed that parenting is a "shared project" these days. ...

» Legislative News
The 2008 Georgia legislative session is right around the corner!Click here for a links the House and Senate pre-filed legislation. Also, the Child Support Commission had their first meeting, December 6th. Their next meeting is scheduled for January 10.We will post the time and the room location at the Georgia Capitol as soon as it [...]

» Updates
Senate Bill 461 - Provide Schools with certain provisions regarding bullying.Status: House Education Committee - waiting on hearingHouse Bill 540 - Domestic relations; child support; provisionsStatus: House Judiciary Committee Favorably ReportedHouse Bill 158 - Parent and child; legitimation; clarify methods; change provisionsStatus: Senate Judy Committee

» Men?s News Daily
Men’s News Daily13 December 2007Mom Commits Welfare Fraud but It’s Dad Who Gets the Bill - and the SystemWants It That Way - By Glenn Sacks

» The Last Straw
Just what we need, another reality show…only this time its called, “Bad Dads”. You HAVE to read this to believe it!Fox zeroes in on ‘Bad Dads’Unscripted series focuses on making deadbeat fathers payWe encourage you to express your opinion by contacting Fox at: foxlife@foxnews.com

» Shared Parenting
Shared parenting or joint physical custody is the common term used to describe a family arrangement after separation or divorce, in which the care of the children is substantially shared between the biological father and mother, leading to a situation where the child knows that both his or her parents are involved in their upbringing. Research and studies that are over a quarter century old show the significant benefits for children of shared parenting arrangements. However, shared parenting is still uncommon in situations where attorneys and the family courts become involved, due to the adversarial nature of the courts.

» Best Interest of the Child
What is "In the Best Interest of the Child" is the endorsement and encouragement of shared or cooperative parenting (or in legal terms, "joint-custody"), in order that a child maintain an equal and loving relationship with both parents, and where a child is guaranteed frequent, consistent, and continuous contact with both parents, and the inalienable rights of each parent are preserved, as granted to each, and outlined by the 14th Amendment of the US Constitution.

» Attorney's Hidden Agenda
With thousands of licensed practicing attorneys and countless yellow pages ads for their services, it is important to choose the right attorney who can make a difference in your family law case and consequently an important difference in your relationship with your child. Additionally, it is important to know how attorney's bill, how they can bill, how they operate, and how to use them in order to minimize your risk of falling prey to an attorneys hidden agenda.

» Collaborative Law
Today, there is a growing effort to promote and encourage "Collaborative Law", one of the latest buzzwords in the family court arena. This is a newer litigation alternative approach to resolve disputes in the family court system that encourages settlement and discourages litigation. However, Collabortive Law will not work for everyone and their are certain characteristics of your case and the parties involved that one must explore to better determine if this is an option for you.

» Child Protective Services (CPS)
In contested divorce cases today, some experts estimate that between 75 and 80 percent of allegations of child abuse are false (unfounded). Although, the Mondale Act's emphasis on bringing even suspicions of abuse into the open has saved thousands of children from harm by using government funds to set up child abuse prevention programs such as Child Protective Services (CPS) and the Department of Children and Family Services (DCFS), there have been some rather disturbing and compelling side-effects.

» False Allegations of Abuse
False Allegations of child abuse have become an international epidemic in the family courts, including false allegations of domestic violence. False allegations are commonly used by self-serving parents in contested child custody cases as an attempt to rest sole custody of their children in the family courts. Whether a false allegation is made maliciously, or out of genuine concern for the welfare of a child by the accusor, the result is generally the same for the accused.

» Move-Away Cases
Noncustodial parents face a difficult dilemma when the custodial parent wants to move to a relatively distant location. Recent California cases indicate that in custody situations, if one parent is functionally the primary parent and the children have been living primarily with that parent, that parent is likely to be permitted by the courts to move and take the children along, even if he or she agreed earlier not to relocate.

» Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS)
In 1985, Dr. Richard A. Gardner coined the term Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS). A term that he used to describe a disorder that arises primarily in the context of child-custody disputes, and it's primary manifestation is the child's campaign of denigration against a parent, and is a campaign that has no justification.

» 730 Custody Evaluations
Child custody evaluations have become extremely common in the family courts, in order to help the court develop a parenting plan that is in the best interest of the children when parents have been or are unable to do so. However, there is much skepticism and growing concerns with the validity and quality of these types of evaluations and how they are conducted and the qualifications of those who are conducting them ("evaluators").

» F4J Front and Center with Abe!
Fathers 4 Justice Leaves It's First Mark in the U.S.On Friday, August 17th, two members of the British Fathers 4 Justice, in co-operation with the Fathers 4 Justice US held their first peaceful protest in Washington DC at the Lincoln Memorial. It's incredible that three days later not one word of it has made it on any national news programs, yet this video on Utube has skyrocketed with over 1,300 visits to the video clip.Also incredible is to hear the police yelling for everyone to stop taking photos of the protestors and to not pay atttention to them . Again, these protests are peaceful, climbing the Lincoln Memorial to hang a large banner. It was an incredible first showing for Fathers 4 Justice. See the video clips by clicking more.....

» Defending Fatherhood as an Institution
Sometimes we hear or read things that move us in special ways. Today, I watched a video clip with music by Andrea Bocelli, with comments and images about fatherhood. The entire piece is moving, but what moved me the most was something at the end of the video. It states.....Fatherhood is an InstitutionWe must Defend it!Think about it. Would you defend your father? Would your father defend you. The answer is of course. My father fought in World War II to defend all families in the United States. He understood the importance of fatherhood, raised his large family of children working two jobs to feed and protect us. And he was rewarded - by losing custody of his children in divorce. As a father that has also lost custody of my children of divorce, I often wonder if things would be this way if my father had fought harder for custody, if he had waged war on the divorce industry, if he had left a different legacy for me and my children and grand children.Yet, I have a new perspective. This is our War! It is our battle now to carry on the American Tradition that our fathers started by fighting for freedom and democracy. It is our responsibility to stand up and fight for our own freedom, and for the right to be parents to our own children, with a government that is designed to defent that freedom, not take it away.It's time we all stand up and question why this institution of Fatherhood is being destroyed. It's time to take politicians that don't understand it's importance out of office. It's time to pick up a megaphone and yell in the street - no more, we must defend our fathers. It's time to organize and make a committment of both time and money to create changes in each and every state to ensure that the Institution of Fatherhood, and the Institution of Motherhood, remain important aspects of all families, with equal access to the children, equal opportunity to educate and love our children, and equal protection under our laws.Please take a moment to watch this compelling video clip. Enjoy the music of Andrea Bocelli, and reflect on what is important to you, and all families. Invest yourself in making change!Watch the video clip by clicking on more...........

» Convicted of Divorce! Now where are you?
It happens thousands of time each day in the US. Some parent is convicted of Divorced and sentenced to the usual punishment - every other weekend with their children, child support payments that raise the standard of living for the custodial parent, and impoverish the non-custodial parent that must somehow still provide a home for their children during that every important visitation It's an outrage when it happens. Sadly, most fiamilies in the US don't understand the devastation until they have gone through it and it is too late.But here is the big question - where do they go after this shock to their system as sunk in? Do they just go on with life living with it, figuring they've received their punishment for being married to the other person and accept their lumps? Do they just move on and try to forget about it?In any given state there are hundreds of thousands of non-custodial parents that are not getting adequate time with their kids. It's an insult to the American value system, its way of life, its family structure. Yet, it is so quiet. Not hardly a roar from the countless victims of this shamefull disease we call divorce.And there is the problem. As a father or mother that has gone through this divorce, who has moved on and risen above it to make life better in the future, you are ignoring one small detail. Things are changing, and your children that you love so much are going to go through the same pain should they ever get divorced. And, coming from a divorced family, their chances are pretty good that they will get divorced. Imagine if your father had fought to make changes in the system - would they be so bad today for you and your children.No, this is not a fight about yourself. This is a fight about your children! Your grandchildren! Will you let them down, or will you stand up and fight for your rights, and the rights of your children like you have never fought before! Will you consistently tell your elected officials that they can not violate your rights to be a parent any longer? Will you attend meetings when you aren't with your kids and help to bring about change. Will you make that $10 donation to a worthy cause that is fighting for your rights?States are organizing, and getting better prepared to take on this fight. www.CRISPE.ORG (http://www.crispe.org/) is a great example, the Shared Parenting Bike Trek of 2007 was a great example, the online petition at www.WashingtonSharedParenting.com (http://www.washingtonsharedparenting.com/) is another great example. Meetup.com has meetings all over the US for divorced paretents, shared parenting advocates, and fathers rights advocates.Here is something to think about. You should have your kids 50% of the time, we agree, there is no argument. But you don't! So, what are you doing with all those extra hours? Working? Playing? Watching TV? Or dedicating them to improving the chances for your kids and other non-custodial parents by dedicating those lost hours to your kids. Is it asking too much to dedicate even 1/10 of those hours to your kids. Or maybe you need to work to make ends meet. Work an extra hour a month and donate the earnings to a shared parenting organization that is fighting for your rights when you don't have time to do the same. President Reagan asked that everyone donate time or money to improve their community. We are asking the same of every non-custodial parent. Come out of the woodwork, donate time or money to help children everywhere, and your possibly your own grandchildren one day.

» 



What The Heck?!!?

Right about now you may be wondering "Have I stumbled across something important?" I am going to respond to that, "Yes you have." This is a site for kids, run by a kid. I am me, Bill, Age 15, a son of a divorced couple, hereby known as the great Billsarena. My parents split in 2000, that stunk. Finally I am doing something about it, well, kind of. You see, a while back I posted up a site, a really bad one, but none the less a site under this domain name. It was about me, a smug encoated web site. Well, I am finally doing something.

So HAH! Eat that slime! By the way, if you notice anything offensive, or anything anti-man or anti-woman or anti-anything, please report this immediately to billsarena@gmail.com.

You can also email article ideas, along with a name for it to be posted under. Billsarena, over and out. I am 15, remember, and short on funds. Please donate here via paypal.

My Contact info is as follows:
Number: 678-534-8372
Email: bill@billsarena.com

Registration on the site includes access to the forums and all kinds of good stuff, like a journal/diary that you can post both public and private stuff on. So register, it's free. And nothing here costs you anything.


[ View: All Visitors - Unlimited - Edit ]

How To Donate!


Alright. That link below will use paypal, so you can use credit card or paypal or whatever. But I will send you a t-shirt with a 25 dollar total donation (That covers shipping). Any donation gets you a window cling. Contact billsarena@gmail.com for bulk, meaning 2+, discounts. You can also order the shirt online at Goodstorm , but that shirt is not as good as the one I send you. You can, however, preview what the shirt looks like. The clings have the same logo and are on a white background. They are pretty cool, they don't leave residue and you can take them off at any time. And they work with tinted windows, or they stick on the outside, like on my dad's van.


Here is the link to donate.
I guarantee that is legitamate, it is through paypal. I had trouble incorporating the donation button, so I did it that way. Type in your amount. Credit Cards are accepted.



 Date for

General Website Stuff and MeYay!!! Now you can book your flights using William Shatner, the PRICELINE NEGOTIATOR!!! All right, so here's the date.

Posted by admin on Wednesday, October 31 @ 06:23:42 MST (352 reads)
(Read More... | 711 bytes more | comments? | Score: 0)
Printer Friendly PDF Format

 A Note from Bill's Dad

Today (September 13, 2007) my son is 16!I just want to let everyone know how proud I am of everything he has accomplished.  Whether is is in School, Music, Support or the Political Arena, Bill is very special to me and I am certain that many of you s...

Posted by admin on Thursday, September 13 @ 11:24:18 MST (495 reads)
(Read More... | 28 bytes more | 1 Comment | Score: 5)
Printer Friendly PDF Format

 Possibly the Coolest Feature is up and Running!

General Website Stuff and Me

Posted by admin on Friday, August 10 @ 11:36:42 MST (455 reads)
(Read More... | 428 bytes more | comments? | Score: 0)
Printer Friendly PDF Format

 DATE FOR THE WALK!!!! Read more about plans for this year.

Shared ParentingOk, hey there again. How is everybody doing? Alright, so yes, you obviously read the date for the walk thing, that is huge. I still have to apply for the permit, however. But I am going to make you read a little bit before you get to see the date.
...

Posted by admin on Saturday, July 21 @ 10:14:42 MST (436 reads)
(Read More... | 287 bytes more | comments? | Score: 0)
Printer Friendly PDF Format

 Trying to get to DC, can I get some help from you guys!

General Website Stuff and MeOk guys, here is the deal:

Bessie Hudgins (who spoke at the walk) over at
http://www.three-sides-to-every-story.org/ is holding a big rally up in DC, and she wants me to speak! Problem is, I can't afford to go up there (Why must everything come down to...

Posted by admin on Wednesday, July 11 @ 17:39:58 MST (491 reads)
(Read More... | 202 bytes more | comments? | Score: 5)
Printer Friendly PDF Format


 
Select Page of 3 pages.

     Survey
Which month do you think I will have for paging?

June
July
Oh yeah baby, BOTH!!!
I havent read the blog post (Woo hoo!)



Results
Polls

Votes: 1
Comments: 0

     User Info
Welcome, Anonymous
Nickname

Password

Security Code:
Security Code
Type Security Code

(Register)
(Lost your Password?)
Membership:
Latest: Stargazer
New Today: 0
New Yesterday: 0
Overall: 104

People Online:
Visitors: 53
Members: 0
Total: 53

     Old Articles
Friday, June 01
· First Part.
Thursday, May 31
· I Would Like To Thank...
· The Best one yet, and Locally, well, to me... (Radio Sandy Springs)
· Update on KSOC in California.
· Eureka Reporter in California!
· KSCO In Santa Cruz California!

Older Articles

     Quote

Brainy Quote
© 2006 Tim Leitz www.drivenbyfaith.org




Information provided on this website is strictly for educational and informational purposes only. Billsarena.com expressly disclaims any representation or warranty, expressed or implied, concerning to the accuracy, completeness of fitness for a particular purpose with respect to information or do*****ents available from this website. Billsarena.com is not responsible or liable for any claim, loss, or damage arising from the use of this information. The purpose of this site is to serve as a general information reference for the general public. Information contained herein is derived from many different sources. Do not assume the domain is error free. It is strongly advised that our members, viewers and participants of this site, seek the advice of a licensed attorney or professional counselor.
All logos and trademarks in this site are property of their respective owner. The comments are property of their posters, all the rest © 2005 by billsarena.com.

You can syndicate our news using the file backend.php or ultramode.txt

If you would like information on Bill and billsarena.com regarding Interviews and Stories please contact us at media@billsarena.com.


PHP-Nuke Copyright © 2005 by Francisco Burzi. This is free software, and you may redistribute it under the GPL. PHP-Nuke comes with absolutely no warranty, for details, see the license.
PHP-Nuke Version 8.0.3.3 Special Edition
Page Generation: 0.55 Seconds